Howdy, I'm currently in a situation where I'm at my wits end, and I really don't know what the right thing to do is. So I'm hoping maybe I can get some feedback here to help (I'd really appreciate it).
Okay, the situation is this: I'm a dog trainer at a big box pet store (I'd like to think I fall into the category of one of the ones that tries to do their job). I've been working in this place for a little over a year, and have always gotten pretty good feedback from my students. I do my best to accommodate people, teach the dogs, and try and understand their issues/frustrations ect (dogs and people alike). But one of my students right now, is not only annoying me to my core, but is really doing something I feel is unethical.
She's an okay person, she's never been offensive to me in a direct way, but she is claiming to be "disabled", which some people truly are, and I understand disabilities don't always have to be visible. She has a dog that she is calling her service dog. This dog is a non neutered (she thinks it's "mean") young Pomeranian. The issue is twofold, first, this dog is a sweet enough little guy, but I don't think he is either suited for or happy with "service work", which basically is just her toting him around everywhere. He is almost a year old, and is still having issues with basic potty training. He'll frequently eliminate in the store, which would be no big deal, except she's calling him a service dog, and bringing him into stores and restaurants. He also barks, jumps up, and nips when excited. He's a sweet dog, but he really just needs to be a regular pet...
I've tried explaining this to her, and telling her she needs to work with him more, and that the hour we spend together each week won't magically make him a well trained dog. I told her she was going to have to exercise him (which she does not), and work with him ATLEAST 30 minutes a day for a year or two before he'd be ready to start the work to BECOME a service animal, at which point she needs to go to a private instructor that is experienced with service animals (which I am DEFINITELY not). And that pushing him into these situations is not only illegal (in the case of stores and restaurants) but is just making his current issues worse. To which she responds that she's frustrated, and that he's a stupid dog. I told her poms aren't stupid, but that their breed can sometimes be a little stubborn. She then decides that she's going to GET RID OF HIM. And wants to know what cute, fluffy dogs between 3 and 5 lbs are "smart".
I really don't know what to do now, my heart goes out to this little guy, who's only real issue is a stupid owner. I feel that working with her is in some ways ethically wrong, because I know that she is taking him out and impersonating a service animal, which only hurts the reputations of the true service dogs. But I don't know how to get this through to her. She also wants me to help her find a good breeder for her next dog, because she "accidentally" bought this one from what from all accounts sounds like a puppy mill. I want to help both her current and her next dog avoid a bad situation, but I also feel like enabling this woman is wrong, and damaging to the real service dogs...
Sorry for the long post, but that's been building up for a while. If anyone has any ideas, either for dealing with the woman. Or for the current or potential future dog, I would really appreciate it.
Okay, the situation is this: I'm a dog trainer at a big box pet store (I'd like to think I fall into the category of one of the ones that tries to do their job). I've been working in this place for a little over a year, and have always gotten pretty good feedback from my students. I do my best to accommodate people, teach the dogs, and try and understand their issues/frustrations ect (dogs and people alike). But one of my students right now, is not only annoying me to my core, but is really doing something I feel is unethical.
She's an okay person, she's never been offensive to me in a direct way, but she is claiming to be "disabled", which some people truly are, and I understand disabilities don't always have to be visible. She has a dog that she is calling her service dog. This dog is a non neutered (she thinks it's "mean") young Pomeranian. The issue is twofold, first, this dog is a sweet enough little guy, but I don't think he is either suited for or happy with "service work", which basically is just her toting him around everywhere. He is almost a year old, and is still having issues with basic potty training. He'll frequently eliminate in the store, which would be no big deal, except she's calling him a service dog, and bringing him into stores and restaurants. He also barks, jumps up, and nips when excited. He's a sweet dog, but he really just needs to be a regular pet...
I've tried explaining this to her, and telling her she needs to work with him more, and that the hour we spend together each week won't magically make him a well trained dog. I told her she was going to have to exercise him (which she does not), and work with him ATLEAST 30 minutes a day for a year or two before he'd be ready to start the work to BECOME a service animal, at which point she needs to go to a private instructor that is experienced with service animals (which I am DEFINITELY not). And that pushing him into these situations is not only illegal (in the case of stores and restaurants) but is just making his current issues worse. To which she responds that she's frustrated, and that he's a stupid dog. I told her poms aren't stupid, but that their breed can sometimes be a little stubborn. She then decides that she's going to GET RID OF HIM. And wants to know what cute, fluffy dogs between 3 and 5 lbs are "smart".
I really don't know what to do now, my heart goes out to this little guy, who's only real issue is a stupid owner. I feel that working with her is in some ways ethically wrong, because I know that she is taking him out and impersonating a service animal, which only hurts the reputations of the true service dogs. But I don't know how to get this through to her. She also wants me to help her find a good breeder for her next dog, because she "accidentally" bought this one from what from all accounts sounds like a puppy mill. I want to help both her current and her next dog avoid a bad situation, but I also feel like enabling this woman is wrong, and damaging to the real service dogs...
Sorry for the long post, but that's been building up for a while. If anyone has any ideas, either for dealing with the woman. Or for the current or potential future dog, I would really appreciate it.