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I've seriously had it with his stubbornness. I don't think that I'm a bad dog owner. I've tried my best at teaching my dogs the basics so that they will behave themselves. I think that I've done a fairly good job for the most part, considering that I've taught them solely myself and with no formalized classes as there aren't any available in my area...the downfall of living in a very small town.
The issue with Uallis is his recall. At times he will be reliable. He'll go for weeks reliably coming when he's called...then suddenly (and it does seem sudden) he'll just...stop. It's like he just decides that its not worth it anymore and he'll refuse to do it. So we'd go back and kept working on it...he'll get to where he's pretty reliable again...and we are just stuck in a vicious circle.
Yesterday, I let him out. Of course, knowing that he isn't the best at reliably staying in the yard, someone is always outside with him. He's NEVER outside alone...ever. So I was out with him, following him around. He was sniffing around, doing his business. Then he starts wandering down the driveway...and just keeps going. By the time I caught up to him, he was at the bottom of the driveway and the ONLY reason I caught up to him was because he stopped to munch on some grass. I was annoyed but tried to not show it and just brought him back to the house. He was fine for the rest of the day during the numerous other times he went out so I just sort of let it go.
Today...haha (that is a very sarcastic laugh)...I let him out again...he did the same thing. This time though, I'm SERIOUSLY ticked off. Not only did he go down the driveway and refused to even ACKNOWLEDGE the sound of my voice (not even an ear twitch seriously) when I called him...when I caught up to him, he RAN from me back toward the house and THEN...(this is where I got mad) veered off to the woods down to the creek and refused to answer my calls for 20 minutes...20 MINUTES!!! That is absolutely unacceptable!
It's not like I've never worked with him on recall...we have worked on it for 2 years...If I have his attention, he'll come 9 times out of 10. The issue we have is when he decides that I'm not worth it and will just flat out ignore me, not an ear twitch, not a tail wag, won't even LOOK in my direction. It's like I don't exist to him during that time. I've done everything I can think to do. The tastiest treats I can think off, tried to make myself so interesting he'd have no choice but to come and investigate, like waving my arms, yelling happy noises like I've lost my mind, dropping to the ground, sitting on the ground...everything. I've done everything I can think of and it works for awhile and then...pfffttt...he's done.
What had me even more angry is that Eddie needed to go outside to potty today during Uallis's...adventures. I knew that he needed to pee. But also knowing how Uallis is I don't let them out together because if Uallis decides to go somewhere...like the woods...Eddie will follow. Eddie follows Uallis everywhere...so instead of one dog that is gone, I'll have 2. So they go outside to potty separately. I don't even like them going outside to play together anymore. So I have Eddie barking, needing to be let out and Uallis is in the woods refusing to come back. It wasn't fair to Eddie. Not to mention what that is teaching Eddie; he barks to be let out and no one lets him out for 20-30 minutes?!? I've just had it...
Uallis is being tied out when he goes out to the bathroom from now on. He won't react kindly to it as he's never been tied on a tie out before in his life...but I'm done with him at this point and he better get used to it fast because its the way its going to be. I can't have my dog running outside refusing to even look in my direction when he's called. He's not a stupid dog and he's not a dog that hasn't been worked with...he KNOWS that when his name is called, he is to return...he KNOWS that...the problem is that Uallis doesn't want to so he just gets it in his mind that he doesn't have to. I've taken into consideration NUMEROUS times that he is a Mastiff and they aren't the most obedient of dogs, they aren't as easily trained as a Lab...but GAWD this is just ridiculous. During these times, its like there is a wall between him and me and its like he can't HEAR me because it is seriously like he can't hear me...that is how he acts. It's like he has a one track mind and when he's focused on something...anything other than me...I cease to exist.
Ok, I feel a little better now...so I'll just end my rant here...lol...at least I can look at him now without muttering obscenities in his direction...
The issue with Uallis is his recall. At times he will be reliable. He'll go for weeks reliably coming when he's called...then suddenly (and it does seem sudden) he'll just...stop. It's like he just decides that its not worth it anymore and he'll refuse to do it. So we'd go back and kept working on it...he'll get to where he's pretty reliable again...and we are just stuck in a vicious circle.
Yesterday, I let him out. Of course, knowing that he isn't the best at reliably staying in the yard, someone is always outside with him. He's NEVER outside alone...ever. So I was out with him, following him around. He was sniffing around, doing his business. Then he starts wandering down the driveway...and just keeps going. By the time I caught up to him, he was at the bottom of the driveway and the ONLY reason I caught up to him was because he stopped to munch on some grass. I was annoyed but tried to not show it and just brought him back to the house. He was fine for the rest of the day during the numerous other times he went out so I just sort of let it go.
Today...haha (that is a very sarcastic laugh)...I let him out again...he did the same thing. This time though, I'm SERIOUSLY ticked off. Not only did he go down the driveway and refused to even ACKNOWLEDGE the sound of my voice (not even an ear twitch seriously) when I called him...when I caught up to him, he RAN from me back toward the house and THEN...(this is where I got mad) veered off to the woods down to the creek and refused to answer my calls for 20 minutes...20 MINUTES!!! That is absolutely unacceptable!
It's not like I've never worked with him on recall...we have worked on it for 2 years...If I have his attention, he'll come 9 times out of 10. The issue we have is when he decides that I'm not worth it and will just flat out ignore me, not an ear twitch, not a tail wag, won't even LOOK in my direction. It's like I don't exist to him during that time. I've done everything I can think to do. The tastiest treats I can think off, tried to make myself so interesting he'd have no choice but to come and investigate, like waving my arms, yelling happy noises like I've lost my mind, dropping to the ground, sitting on the ground...everything. I've done everything I can think of and it works for awhile and then...pfffttt...he's done.
What had me even more angry is that Eddie needed to go outside to potty today during Uallis's...adventures. I knew that he needed to pee. But also knowing how Uallis is I don't let them out together because if Uallis decides to go somewhere...like the woods...Eddie will follow. Eddie follows Uallis everywhere...so instead of one dog that is gone, I'll have 2. So they go outside to potty separately. I don't even like them going outside to play together anymore. So I have Eddie barking, needing to be let out and Uallis is in the woods refusing to come back. It wasn't fair to Eddie. Not to mention what that is teaching Eddie; he barks to be let out and no one lets him out for 20-30 minutes?!? I've just had it...
Uallis is being tied out when he goes out to the bathroom from now on. He won't react kindly to it as he's never been tied on a tie out before in his life...but I'm done with him at this point and he better get used to it fast because its the way its going to be. I can't have my dog running outside refusing to even look in my direction when he's called. He's not a stupid dog and he's not a dog that hasn't been worked with...he KNOWS that when his name is called, he is to return...he KNOWS that...the problem is that Uallis doesn't want to so he just gets it in his mind that he doesn't have to. I've taken into consideration NUMEROUS times that he is a Mastiff and they aren't the most obedient of dogs, they aren't as easily trained as a Lab...but GAWD this is just ridiculous. During these times, its like there is a wall between him and me and its like he can't HEAR me because it is seriously like he can't hear me...that is how he acts. It's like he has a one track mind and when he's focused on something...anything other than me...I cease to exist.
Ok, I feel a little better now...so I'll just end my rant here...lol...at least I can look at him now without muttering obscenities in his direction...