At risk of upsetting the OP -- I think you need a serious attitude readjustment if this is going to work.
First of all, all of this -- all of it -- is normal. Totally, 100% normal housebreaking behavior. Nothing is out of the ordinary at all.
no im not upset i thank you. this is all i really needed. some reassurance that its normal. i was begginning to question myself as my dogs trainer. theres so many conflicting opinions out there about puppy raising, i cant tell you how many people wrote to me privately telling me that smacking my puppy (not violently) is a usefull tactic.
anyways, ultimatly i will find out what works best for my dog, since every dog is different.