OK, first please stop thinking this dog is purposely doing things to anger you. this is absolutely not happening, because dogs do not do that. this dog is NOT defiant or intractable. This is a young dog that no one has ever trained. How can he know what to do if no one has ever shown him?
Second -- how much exercise is this dog getting? This is a very high energy dog and if you are not providing enough real activity for the dog, there will be problems because the dog is too young and smart and athletic to be able to do with only a walk to go potty.
third - you do not say if you have done an actual training with this dog. If you have, please tell us what methods you have used. If you have not, then it is time to get to work. It is up to you, not the dog, to teach the dog how you want him to behave.
If a dog doesn't do what you want there are only a few reasons this would happen, and none of them are purposeful by the dog.
The dog doesn't understand what the cue is because they have not been sufficiently trained
The dog is not sufficiently motivated to do as you ask
the dog has a mental or physical issue that prevents his doing as you ask.
In this case, it is most likely the first two.
Please stop right now your yelling, because that is only making things worse. dogs do not need to be yelled at and doing this is very counter-productive because it only creates struggle and not a healthy trusting relationship which is what you need with a dog.
It sounds to me as if this dog is constantly trying to get your attention, trying to get you to play, trying to get enough activity, and not succeeding. the dog is probably as frustrated as you are.
solution: first, get this dog some serious activity. The dog needs to run, to go hiking all day, to be played with vigorously. If you cannot do this, then either get someone else to do it or consider rehoming the dog to someone who can, because unless you can use up some of that energy you won't get past the first step.
Second, start doing concentrated training with this dog. Use positive reinforcement methods only. No grabbing the collar, no yelling NO, nothing like that. Start out by watching some videos on various trainings made by KIKOPUP on YouTube. the more you train the dog the better. Training uses energy as well, and the dog needs his mind exercises as well as his body.
As for eating out of the other dog's dish, just feed them in separate places with a door between them, This is always a good idea with any dogs.
Please start looking at this dog as a dog who only needs some guidance rather than as a bad dog who is deliberately making your life hard.
Here are a couple of good places to start with the training
Second -- how much exercise is this dog getting? This is a very high energy dog and if you are not providing enough real activity for the dog, there will be problems because the dog is too young and smart and athletic to be able to do with only a walk to go potty.
third - you do not say if you have done an actual training with this dog. If you have, please tell us what methods you have used. If you have not, then it is time to get to work. It is up to you, not the dog, to teach the dog how you want him to behave.
If a dog doesn't do what you want there are only a few reasons this would happen, and none of them are purposeful by the dog.
The dog doesn't understand what the cue is because they have not been sufficiently trained
The dog is not sufficiently motivated to do as you ask
the dog has a mental or physical issue that prevents his doing as you ask.
In this case, it is most likely the first two.
Please stop right now your yelling, because that is only making things worse. dogs do not need to be yelled at and doing this is very counter-productive because it only creates struggle and not a healthy trusting relationship which is what you need with a dog.
It sounds to me as if this dog is constantly trying to get your attention, trying to get you to play, trying to get enough activity, and not succeeding. the dog is probably as frustrated as you are.
solution: first, get this dog some serious activity. The dog needs to run, to go hiking all day, to be played with vigorously. If you cannot do this, then either get someone else to do it or consider rehoming the dog to someone who can, because unless you can use up some of that energy you won't get past the first step.
Second, start doing concentrated training with this dog. Use positive reinforcement methods only. No grabbing the collar, no yelling NO, nothing like that. Start out by watching some videos on various trainings made by KIKOPUP on YouTube. the more you train the dog the better. Training uses energy as well, and the dog needs his mind exercises as well as his body.
As for eating out of the other dog's dish, just feed them in separate places with a door between them, This is always a good idea with any dogs.
Please start looking at this dog as a dog who only needs some guidance rather than as a bad dog who is deliberately making your life hard.
Here are a couple of good places to start with the training