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My husband really wanted a dog for years and I am a cat person. When my beloved cat passed I agreed it would be a dog next. Few weeks ago I thought yes I am ready for a dog. We contacted resuce homes and found a springer dog. We spent nearly 2 weeks visiting him and getting to know him, it was fun and very active always being outdoors. I had vision's of a small dog to be honest but my husband was desperate for springer or beagle. So we got home and it was like I was hit with a brick of reality, its literally only been 2 days. However I have spent the whole time crying and hiding in our bedroom, my husband is already building a bond. Am giving myself terrible pressure, I am also off work which is out of routine so am just sitting round my house watching him and over thinking. I am desperate to make sure I have the best friend bond. Is it too early to even be thinking like this ? Am I a terrible person? All I see is the positive and everyone saying how amazing it is.....
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My husband really wanted a dog for years and I am a cat person. When my beloved cat passed I agreed it would be a dog next. Few weeks ago I thought yes I am ready for a dog. We contacted resuce homes and found a springer dog. We spent nearly 2 weeks visiting him and getting to know him, it was fun and very active always being outdoors. I had vision's of a small dog to be honest but my husband was desperate for springer or beagle. So we got home and it was like I was hit with a brick of reality, its literally only been 2 days. However I have spent the whole time crying and hiding in our bedroom, my husband is already building a bond. Am giving myself terrible pressure, I am also off work which is out of routine so am just sitting round my house watching him and over thinking. I am desperate to make sure I have the best friend bond. Is it too early to even be thinking like this ? Am I a terrible person? All I see is the positive and everyone saying how amazing it is.....
Thank you for taking time to reply