wow, man. You really can have the pup you want but you're gonna have to work for it. This pup is still intimidatable, and can still learn but at the same time, everyone has to agree to a consistent behavior. Here's the thing... if you can't take the time it needs to train this puppy and if it's just not a good situation for the dog, let someone adopt it, or take it to a no-kill shelter for training+adoption. Otherwise, get busy reading those stickies and any other free info you can find on the web on dog training. good luck.