i beg to differ horseandhound, dogs do know who to lick/kiss/jump on etc, and who not too.. example, my dogs we taught that it is OK to lick/kiss/jump on and play with with my son and myself... however, they can NOT lick/kiss my hubby because he is allergic to their saliva, but, they can jump on him.. we have taught them in a short time to not jump/lick or kiss my dad and other guests, with the "no" firm voice.. IMO, dogs can learn what to do and not to do with a pateince and tenderness. '
good luck.
good luck.