Wow so many people miss the point here. It's sad that realizing and accepting that things can and do offend people is so exhausting and considered not worthy of someone's time. No one is claiming that people are awful for not realizing something is offensive. But when it's brought up that it offensive toward a group of people, why is it so important that you continue saying it? Is this inconvenience to you somehow so much more important than the feelings of an entire oppressed group?! If you can't listen to the PoC who have commented about it directly hurts them and then feel any differently, there's nothing I can do but feel sorry for your lack of empathy. It's something that I think a lot of people need to work on finding within them. Put yourself in others' shoes. It really, really helps a whole lot. And if me caring about not offending groups of people I'm not even a PART of makes me "oversensitive", so be it. That's just ridiculous.