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Hello. Long story short: we moved to a big house with over 50 windows and openings. My family consists of 2 babies (3&4 years old)my wife (working), a lady who helps for the house (and lives with us) and me (working hard :) away from home 7am to 6pm).

So we bought a female Doberman for company and protection/alert. To tell you the truth, I had many male dogs in the past but without the babies and always living in the yard and never inside the house and as near socialized as this one.

Now this Doberman is almost 10 months old, sleeps most of the nights in my bedroom (has left the crate) and she is just the sweetest dog in the neighbor: extremely socialized, extremely friendly with all small kids and with our visitors, very friendly with all other dogs even with some cats.

My question is: is it possible that I have over socialized her, so that she will not become a good guard dog? From some signs I would say no, for example we have changed our bell 3 times (!) and from the first day she knew that someone is coming (good sign) and was waiting in the door to greed him and/or play with him (not a good sign).
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Your dog cannot distinguish a visitor from a person with bad intentions. As much as we would all like to think that dogs have a sixth sense about who is a robber and who is just a friendly guy climbing the fence to retrieve his kid's ball... they don't.
I don't know if I entirely agree. I posted the story on here a few days ago about my cocker spaniel growling at the crazy guy who was off his meds. He didn't growl at any of my neighbors, just the crazy guy.
Probably because dogs can sense hormonal levels, etc. The man was physically sick, and that's different from someone who just is planning to do something wrong.
I don't know if I entirely agree. I posted the story on here a few days ago about my cocker spaniel growling at the crazy guy who was off his meds. He didn't growl at any of my neighbors, just the crazy guy.
You'd be really surprised. Most of the time, dogs can sense when things are out of the ordinary not because of a sixth sense, but just because of how amplified their existing five senses are. For example, Honey is wary of mentally retarded people (a socialisation oversight on my part). To us, they look the same, but to dogs, their silhouette is different, their gait is different, their subtle gestures and sounds are different and so there's no reason for them to believe that they are the same "creature" as you or I.

Spunky has growled at a strange man on our property at night, scaring him off, but I'm under no impression that she can see "dangerous" or "safe" auras surrounding people, which many people believe dogs have the mystical ability to do. I think it's far more likely that she smelled an unfamiliar scent in the yard at night, unprecedented by a doorbell -- something unusual, rather than inherently dangerous -- and became personally wary of it, rather than defensive of me or the property. If it had been my best friend walking through the yard at night, chances are she would have reacted the same way.

Have you read Stanley Coren's "How Dogs Think"? It's a really good book which contains a lot more information on what really goes on behind a dog's supposed "sixth sense".
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As much as I'd like to think my dog knows good from bad, she doesn't. Some kid was trying to steal my brothers bike and when my mum opened the door she went straight for him, tailing wagging and all. Of course the kid booked it out of the yard with some excuse and practically jumped over the gate. He was terrified, she just wanted to play.

That coupled with the story I posted earlier about my old dog biting my uncle and I just can't assume that dogs know good from bad. My dog does growl at certain people, anyone who is under the influence she hates, but that's probably a fairly easy thing for dogs to detect and I can't say she was socialized to that sort of thing.

It's much safer for everyone involved that a dog not be trained to attack, or allowed to think it's okay. They do not have the ability to decide who is good and who is bad and shouldn't be put in the position to make that decision.
Thanks for clarifying this Zr., Pai and rosemaryninja. I was under kind of different opinion.

My Doberman will be 10 months old shortly. Do I have to continue socialization? Or the dog is settle now and just needs "maintenance"?

Finally can I play her with ropes? I pull the one end and the dog the other.

TIA
Thanks for clarifying this Zr., Pai and rosemaryninja. I was under kind of different opinion.

My Doberman will be 10 months old shortly. Do I have to continue socialization? Or the dog is settle now and just needs "maintenance"?

Finally can I play her with ropes? I pull the one end and the dog the other.

TIA
Always continue socialization. You'll never harm your dog by letting him meet someone IMO.

I have heard varying opinions on the rope toys. Personally, as long as the dog lets you win (i.e. you say "give it" and the dog gives it) I have no problem with it.
Thanks for clarifying this Zr., Pai and rosemaryninja. I was under kind of different opinion.

My Doberman will be 10 months old shortly. Do I have to continue socialization? Or the dog is settle now and just needs "maintenance"?

Finally can I play her with ropes? I pull the one end and the dog the other.

TIA
Socialisation is ongoing. You do not have to be as comprehensive as you were about it during puppy days -- that is, you don't have to actively bring her everywhere and think of different things to expose her to -- but you should keep up the interaction with other humans and dogs, as far as possible.
In regards to the tug toys, there are various opinions on it as someone else said. I don't really care one way or another if my dogs win or not. I play tug with Uallis all the time and I rarely win. If I do actually win, its because he "let" me by not pulling very hard. A person has to be a lot stronger than me to win a game of tug against a 200lb, very strong dog. What is more important to me, is that I always introduce the game and its over when I say its over.
Nice Mdawn. Could it matter if she bites the rope with the front teeth and I pull hard?
I believe that because of the nature of Doberman (protection dog) it is likely to attack when she sees a threat to our kids, for example.
Not unless there's no other option, and not all Dobermans will do it. My old Doberman Ilsa once stepped between a neighbor kid and a bully, and roared at the bully to scare him off. She didn't bite or even make any move to bite, but she did what she had to to make the threat leave.

Dobermans are usually very good at discerning who is a good guy, who is a bad guy... who is a legitimate threat, and who can be scared off with a bark and some posturing. They are a very special breed in this way - personal protection has been their bread and butter since they were created.

None of my dobes have received any sort of protection training. And yet, with the exception of Kaylee (who I've had for only a few weeks), they've all been in situations where they have proven their *natural* protection instinct. Particularly Ronin. Ilsa was mostly talk, but Ronin has no qualms about taking it to the next level. If it hadn't been for a leash, he would have latched on to the face of an attacker - the leash and a prong collar stopped him.

I know some dobes that have never known a stranger - they'd let the devil himself walk into the house. I've known others, however, that are very good at their job, and come by it naturally. You really have no way of knowing what you'll get. And it takes time for a dog to mature into a dog that can be an effective guard dog - wait until she's 18 months and reevaluate. Granted, some dogs show protection potential very young. Ilsa was 5 months old when she cornered an intruder (and kept him in that corner!), Ronin was already a very intense dog when I got him at 20 months. Kaylee is 13 months, and she's got a bark that could scare the pants off people!

(Incidentally, Ronin is a retired show dog, a therapy dog, he's got his CGC, and we're training towards a CD. He's a sweetheart, and loves it when he gets to see his human friends... but he is still a Doberman, he's still a protection dog. He's fine with guests in the house, but he treats intruders (even people he knows) MUCH differently.
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