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When I first got Kabota, I understood that it would take some time for him to settle in. I did. So when he spent the first 2 weeks on the couch, I waited. I rewarded any interaction, no matter how subtle. I settled in to wait.
And wait I did. He never really wagged his tail. He never really looked at us. He didn't seem to notice when we talked to him. He never seemed too interested in us unless we were holding food. Then he was interested in the food. Sometimes I could get him to play with me, but not often.
After 6 months, I had just about given up that Kabota was ever going to be a truly interactive dog. I figured that he'd obviously missed to crucial interaction window and this was the best he could do. I still loved him, I just felt a bit sorry for him. He'd been neglected for his entire life and that was that.
Last night, I watched him catch and eat a fly and I said, "Kabota, you're a strange little dog."
He looked at me, smiled and wagged his tail. A real wag. A big, brushy, side to side wag I'd never seen before. Not from him.
7 months, you guys. It took 7 months, but Kabota wags his tail now. I cried.
And wait I did. He never really wagged his tail. He never really looked at us. He didn't seem to notice when we talked to him. He never seemed too interested in us unless we were holding food. Then he was interested in the food. Sometimes I could get him to play with me, but not often.
After 6 months, I had just about given up that Kabota was ever going to be a truly interactive dog. I figured that he'd obviously missed to crucial interaction window and this was the best he could do. I still loved him, I just felt a bit sorry for him. He'd been neglected for his entire life and that was that.
Last night, I watched him catch and eat a fly and I said, "Kabota, you're a strange little dog."
He looked at me, smiled and wagged his tail. A real wag. A big, brushy, side to side wag I'd never seen before. Not from him.
7 months, you guys. It took 7 months, but Kabota wags his tail now. I cried.