If it makes you feel better, neither breed is boring as puppies/adolescents
They're notorious land sharks as babies.
Honestly, I think it's six of one, half a dozen of the other - either would fit your requirements. Just down to personal preference. In my experience Goldens tend to have a little more personality and to be more sensitive, whereas Labs tend to be more stolid and bomb-proof. I personally like the look of a Golden more, but I'd be super picky about choosing a breeder who's emphasizing longevity and soundness, given how common heritable issues are in the breed.
Honestly, I think it's six of one, half a dozen of the other - either would fit your requirements. Just down to personal preference. In my experience Goldens tend to have a little more personality and to be more sensitive, whereas Labs tend to be more stolid and bomb-proof. I personally like the look of a Golden more, but I'd be super picky about choosing a breeder who's emphasizing longevity and soundness, given how common heritable issues are in the breed.