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And yes, I mean my puppy - not me. Stevie is a 5-month old mix of JRT/chihuahua/dachsund/pit bull/ who knows what else. I got her from a neighborhood "oopsie" litter in October when she was 8 weeks old.
I know I have almost nothing to complain about: she has had 2 vet exams/all vax/stool analysis with a glowing bill of health. Has always slept through the night. Quick to learn potty pads and some commands. Well socialized and plays confidently at dog park, not shy or aggressive around most new people/dogs on the street, etc. And she's kinda cute.
But I have 2 big problems - probably one causing the other. #1 is she eats her poop (maybe that should be #2? - sorry, couldn't resist). Once I discovered this - to my horror - I fast-tracked the potty training and since I now work from home we were able to get on a schedule and do all pottying outside (with a few accidents). No easy task, since I live in a 2nd-floor apt.
In anticipation of when I have to leave her for longer, we've started "crate" training - the crate being my small bathroom. For weeks I had no evidence that she went potty in that room. But last night it was obvious she not only pooped there, she ate it, and was violently ill several times after. I can't even type this without gagging. It has been a nightmare.
I've had 2 other dogs in my life and raised a child so I'm no shrinking violet when it comes to this stuff. But I just can't handle it - guess it's the thought of it.
Can anyone help me with their experience of this? I've read extensively. I know she might or might not outgrow this. If she doesn't, I feel I can never leave her free in the house when I'm not there. I wasn't going to put her in a tiny crate (and I'll have to get one so small that she can't poop in it) for hours at a time but now I might have to.
And all of this leads to problem #2 (sorry again):I'm not bonding with her like I think I should. I appreciate that she's a great pup who's got so much potential. I take care of her patiently and kindly. I just can't say I love her and I can't think about the poop eating without getting nauseous. I feel it's keeping me from bonding.
I've had her long enough now where it feels devastating (maybe more for me than her) to consider rehoming. But I am. I am a mess over this.
Any help?
I know I have almost nothing to complain about: she has had 2 vet exams/all vax/stool analysis with a glowing bill of health. Has always slept through the night. Quick to learn potty pads and some commands. Well socialized and plays confidently at dog park, not shy or aggressive around most new people/dogs on the street, etc. And she's kinda cute.
But I have 2 big problems - probably one causing the other. #1 is she eats her poop (maybe that should be #2? - sorry, couldn't resist). Once I discovered this - to my horror - I fast-tracked the potty training and since I now work from home we were able to get on a schedule and do all pottying outside (with a few accidents). No easy task, since I live in a 2nd-floor apt.
In anticipation of when I have to leave her for longer, we've started "crate" training - the crate being my small bathroom. For weeks I had no evidence that she went potty in that room. But last night it was obvious she not only pooped there, she ate it, and was violently ill several times after. I can't even type this without gagging. It has been a nightmare.
I've had 2 other dogs in my life and raised a child so I'm no shrinking violet when it comes to this stuff. But I just can't handle it - guess it's the thought of it.
Can anyone help me with their experience of this? I've read extensively. I know she might or might not outgrow this. If she doesn't, I feel I can never leave her free in the house when I'm not there. I wasn't going to put her in a tiny crate (and I'll have to get one so small that she can't poop in it) for hours at a time but now I might have to.
And all of this leads to problem #2 (sorry again):I'm not bonding with her like I think I should. I appreciate that she's a great pup who's got so much potential. I take care of her patiently and kindly. I just can't say I love her and I can't think about the poop eating without getting nauseous. I feel it's keeping me from bonding.
I've had her long enough now where it feels devastating (maybe more for me than her) to consider rehoming. But I am. I am a mess over this.
Any help?