Could be Cold urticaria making a worsening of hives.
Are you really really really rinsing any shampoo out? Lingering shampoo irritates the skin.
I'd probably try a warm (not hot) rinse with an apple cider and water rinse after that and then another warm rinse.
edit to add comment to your newest post:
mud washes off with water or brushes off when dry.
do you have city water or well water, do you have a whole house water softener?
My observation is that bathes dont do much for allergies causes by inhalation or ingestion, only for topical contact. Any chance her symptoms correlate with something other than skin contact?
Are you really really really rinsing any shampoo out? Lingering shampoo irritates the skin.
I'd probably try a warm (not hot) rinse with an apple cider and water rinse after that and then another warm rinse.
edit to add comment to your newest post:
mud washes off with water or brushes off when dry.
do you have city water or well water, do you have a whole house water softener?
My observation is that bathes dont do much for allergies causes by inhalation or ingestion, only for topical contact. Any chance her symptoms correlate with something other than skin contact?