HI, new member here. I've been checking out these forums and have read the very long (39 page?) thread on CM and his methods. WOW, that's a multi-day read right there. 
I see lots of good people here with lots of different suggestions, techniques, etc.
Here's my situation.
I have 3.5 year old Thai ridge back, a 2.5 year old Shih Tzu and an 8 month old Thai ridge back, all males.
The two older dogs are good, the thai is (and always has been) a shy dog. He was very shy when I first got him (13 months old) and I've worked extensively with him on this issue. He's come a long way, but will always be leering of strangers and takes a decent amount of time to warm up to new people. He will bark upon a stranger entering the house, but will soon lay down and basically ignore them or just keep an eye on the new guest. Often he will approach and allow to be touched, but it's a slow process for him. It's much better than it used to be, but he'll always be a shy guy.
The Shih Tzu is Mr. Outgoing. Loves everyone, everything (human and canine) and loves attention. He will play ball (or fetch any # of toys) until you get tired of it or he falls over in exhaustion. He's a social guy and has always been very outgoing in his way.
The pup thai guy is the one I'm having problems with at this point. He's young, he still has his puppy ways, and unfortunately has been showing more and more aggression towards people and his pack members. I just had him fixed last week (the Shih Tzu has been fixed for over a year and the older thai dog has been fixed for a couple of weeks now) and his surgery went well.
However, he's been very difficult to manage and as stated has been getting increasingly aggressive towards strangers. Anyone coming in to our home and he completely freaks out, barking incessantly, growling and he's even nipped a few people that have tried to pet him.
I will admit I've used some of the dominance based techniques with him (and the other two), matter of fact the Shih Tzu is one of the few dogs I've ever had that has bitten me, twice as a puppy and the alpha role cured that. It's never happened since that day.
(As a note, please do not let this descend in to a CM method bashing thread, I'm open to try anything and correct any mistakes I've made.)
I got the young thai guy at just over 5 months of age and he essentially had no training at all (he was housebroken), but had not been walked much, if any. I got him walking on a leash correctly, at my side and without pulling and taking food/treats from me without chomping my hand. I am currently in basic training with him and he's actually doing very well at that. He likes to work and please, and is very food motivated. He's always hungry and responds well to treats, but the aggression had been growing.
He started nipping at people's heels at about 6 months of age, just started doing it one day towards my friends. Initially, this appeared to him being over protective of me, he bonded very quickly and strongly with me. I have the freedom to take him with me pretty much everywhere I go, to the office, to run errands, etc. and I did everything I could to socialize (and still do) on a daily basis.
The wife and I are religious about walking our pack, at least twice daily. I also take him and the older thai for trail walks to burn up their extra energy and these dogs love being in the great outdoors. It is where they come from and I live in the south, in a tropical environment, which is right at home for them.
We normally go to the dog parks when time or convenience allows, I have been through a few fights with my older thai dog and have learned his aggression triggers as well as his body language. If I see him acting up or any of the signs of aggression, we leash up and leave. I will admit we've had some fights and a few were semi-serious. Nothing fatal, but more than just the noise and posturing that comes with two dogs not getting along. I haven't been going to the parks much at all as of late as it's been really hot during the day and some of the parks are just to aggressive or get out of control due to the dogs and people that go there.
Things have really started to take a turn for the worse and this past weekend was pretty bad. The young thai dog was behaving very aggressively at the house as we had company over. To the point where I had to cage him and finally had to move him and cage in to a bedroom as he was constantly barking. Our company had their children over and the young thai was showing aggression/barking towards all of them. The company are good friends of ours and they're also dog owners, so they understand to some extent.
Young guy is starting to show more food/resource aggression towards the other dogs and started a fight with each of them this weekend that I had to break up. The thai on thai scrap was at the point of getting pretty nasty and I had to grab the young one's rear legs as he wouldn't stop fighting and roll him over. The older thai will respond when I tell him to stop, but the younger was not stopping until I intervened.
All three of our dogs love and respect the wife and I and are good with us as a whole. I would describe myself as a type "A" person and I can at times be aggressive and hard charging. I try my best to convey and carry positive energy in all things I do, but life is life and it often throws curves, ya know.
I'm open to any suggestions on how to use positive reinforcement and tap the young thai's food drive for a positive outcome. I will also use negative punishment if needed as I don't really feel it's good to reward a dog that just started a fight with another dog or pack member.
I've been actively searching for professionals in the dog behavior field locally, but I'll have to admit most of them seem to be more training (obedience or agility) focused and not so much dog behavior or aggression.
I really love this little guy, but I also don't want a liability on my hands as I hate to think of him injuring anyone, especially a child.
If I left any relevant information out, please reply and I'll do my best to answer it honestly. I do see that the terms "Alpha" and "Dominant" aren't liked to much here and it's completely understandable.
Any input from the members is greatly appreciated.
I see lots of good people here with lots of different suggestions, techniques, etc.
Here's my situation.
I have 3.5 year old Thai ridge back, a 2.5 year old Shih Tzu and an 8 month old Thai ridge back, all males.
The two older dogs are good, the thai is (and always has been) a shy dog. He was very shy when I first got him (13 months old) and I've worked extensively with him on this issue. He's come a long way, but will always be leering of strangers and takes a decent amount of time to warm up to new people. He will bark upon a stranger entering the house, but will soon lay down and basically ignore them or just keep an eye on the new guest. Often he will approach and allow to be touched, but it's a slow process for him. It's much better than it used to be, but he'll always be a shy guy.
The Shih Tzu is Mr. Outgoing. Loves everyone, everything (human and canine) and loves attention. He will play ball (or fetch any # of toys) until you get tired of it or he falls over in exhaustion. He's a social guy and has always been very outgoing in his way.
The pup thai guy is the one I'm having problems with at this point. He's young, he still has his puppy ways, and unfortunately has been showing more and more aggression towards people and his pack members. I just had him fixed last week (the Shih Tzu has been fixed for over a year and the older thai dog has been fixed for a couple of weeks now) and his surgery went well.
However, he's been very difficult to manage and as stated has been getting increasingly aggressive towards strangers. Anyone coming in to our home and he completely freaks out, barking incessantly, growling and he's even nipped a few people that have tried to pet him.
I will admit I've used some of the dominance based techniques with him (and the other two), matter of fact the Shih Tzu is one of the few dogs I've ever had that has bitten me, twice as a puppy and the alpha role cured that. It's never happened since that day.
(As a note, please do not let this descend in to a CM method bashing thread, I'm open to try anything and correct any mistakes I've made.)
I got the young thai guy at just over 5 months of age and he essentially had no training at all (he was housebroken), but had not been walked much, if any. I got him walking on a leash correctly, at my side and without pulling and taking food/treats from me without chomping my hand. I am currently in basic training with him and he's actually doing very well at that. He likes to work and please, and is very food motivated. He's always hungry and responds well to treats, but the aggression had been growing.
He started nipping at people's heels at about 6 months of age, just started doing it one day towards my friends. Initially, this appeared to him being over protective of me, he bonded very quickly and strongly with me. I have the freedom to take him with me pretty much everywhere I go, to the office, to run errands, etc. and I did everything I could to socialize (and still do) on a daily basis.
The wife and I are religious about walking our pack, at least twice daily. I also take him and the older thai for trail walks to burn up their extra energy and these dogs love being in the great outdoors. It is where they come from and I live in the south, in a tropical environment, which is right at home for them.
We normally go to the dog parks when time or convenience allows, I have been through a few fights with my older thai dog and have learned his aggression triggers as well as his body language. If I see him acting up or any of the signs of aggression, we leash up and leave. I will admit we've had some fights and a few were semi-serious. Nothing fatal, but more than just the noise and posturing that comes with two dogs not getting along. I haven't been going to the parks much at all as of late as it's been really hot during the day and some of the parks are just to aggressive or get out of control due to the dogs and people that go there.
Things have really started to take a turn for the worse and this past weekend was pretty bad. The young thai dog was behaving very aggressively at the house as we had company over. To the point where I had to cage him and finally had to move him and cage in to a bedroom as he was constantly barking. Our company had their children over and the young thai was showing aggression/barking towards all of them. The company are good friends of ours and they're also dog owners, so they understand to some extent.
Young guy is starting to show more food/resource aggression towards the other dogs and started a fight with each of them this weekend that I had to break up. The thai on thai scrap was at the point of getting pretty nasty and I had to grab the young one's rear legs as he wouldn't stop fighting and roll him over. The older thai will respond when I tell him to stop, but the younger was not stopping until I intervened.
All three of our dogs love and respect the wife and I and are good with us as a whole. I would describe myself as a type "A" person and I can at times be aggressive and hard charging. I try my best to convey and carry positive energy in all things I do, but life is life and it often throws curves, ya know.
I'm open to any suggestions on how to use positive reinforcement and tap the young thai's food drive for a positive outcome. I will also use negative punishment if needed as I don't really feel it's good to reward a dog that just started a fight with another dog or pack member.
I've been actively searching for professionals in the dog behavior field locally, but I'll have to admit most of them seem to be more training (obedience or agility) focused and not so much dog behavior or aggression.
I really love this little guy, but I also don't want a liability on my hands as I hate to think of him injuring anyone, especially a child.
If I left any relevant information out, please reply and I'll do my best to answer it honestly. I do see that the terms "Alpha" and "Dominant" aren't liked to much here and it's completely understandable.
Any input from the members is greatly appreciated.