Personally, I wouldn't be happy with a vet that I had to push into doing what I wanted. Extra blood work, x-rays, etc. aren't going to hurt your dog so if you feel they are necessary and want them done (and many WOULD agree with getting such things done before sports) then there shouldn't be any debate over it. I'm sure he's just trying to save you from going through a bunch of extra procedures, but Marge is your dog. Ultimately it's your decision whether or not something is needed.
Same goes for the phone convo. Regardless of how it was handled, if you aren't happy (and this is a repeated annoyance) then I'd likely be looking for a new vet.
Same goes for the phone convo. Regardless of how it was handled, if you aren't happy (and this is a repeated annoyance) then I'd likely be looking for a new vet.