Hi - I am a new member and I have been reading some of the message board and think you might be able to give me some advice. We have two adopted dogs, one is a aussie mix and has recently become very defiant. I have no problem with training her to follow commands, the difficulty is with training her to NOT do something. I don't know how to "reward" her for NOT jumping onthe couch or NOT jumping on the kitchen counter to grab the food while we are eating...etc etc. Do you have any advice?