How do you tell which dog is the alpha of a pack. I watch my 2 all the time and can't figure it out. Brady seems very laid back and Molly is very aggressive. If I give them both bones, she will usually end up both. After a few times of giving one back to him they usually sit and chew on their own. They eat out of the same bowl and He usually eats first. When they are running around chasing each other, he usually is the one leading and she is chasing. As long as she keeps following he will run all over. If she stops he comes back and gets her to start up again and she chases. There doesn't seem to be a clear leader. When we walk on a leash she usually noses ahead of him, but not always. She is more possessive. If she has a toy/bone and he comes around sometimes she growls but he will never growl over stuff. There just seems to be conflicting signals. Also, can 2 dogs have different roles with different people. My wife always does things with Molly first. I usually do with Brady first. It doesn't seem to be causing any bad behaviors between them.