Why do people even have friends?

siberian husky lover12

Hi, well i am very angry. Friends are not friends if they say I HATE YOU right! WELL THAT HAPPEND TO ME! And i do know that hate is a strong powerfull word and one of my friends on here used it! TO ME! I am very sad and mad

peace36

Well, maybe she did not mean it.
Example some people (not me) say "oh I could just kill you" and when you read that it sounds horrible but if you actually heard the person say it most of the time it is in a laugh in response to some sort of practical joke.

It seem to me friends come and go. I read it somewhere that we have different "season" in our lives. Like our lives are always changing and we are a work in progress. Some people grow in different directions. Not always bad directions just different and then you smile when you remember your friendship with that person but you will have moved in a different direction too with new friends.

I am in a no friend mode right now. Sure I get along with my neighbors and some of my kids friends parents but seeing how we are moving to Florida next year I do not want to get to personal with anyone. To me you are personal with a true good friend. Anyway my time for good friends will come again.

Try not to be to bummed out. Just enjoy the good times when they are there and I am sure you will have more good friends soon.

I think your really cool, nice and caring, and you love Jesus. You will be fine and he will see to it you have who you need in your life

Cheer up.

ilovemychihuahua

I agree here with peace36! I didn't mean it. Until I went back and say that you said, "if you hate me, then I hate you too!!" And that really hurt me! And I can't beleive you would go and make a thread including me!!And guess what siberianhuskylover12?! I had a friend here, Ace Of Hearts, and she was very nice to me. Then one day, she left. I mean, she had to, and I thought I wouldn't find another friend like her, till you came. now, our friendship is over and i'll nevere find, an Ace Of Hearts. No one will replace her. It's like a dog. When a dog runs away, you get anopther dog, and know that you won't replace them, just like Babydoll. My dog who ran away! So, hope your happy.

Doberdude

Why did your friend say he/she hates you HAS to be a reason and + in this world you always need friends thats what makes humans a social race besides even though there could be tough times friendship is a requirement in life. Friends help, share, protect you can't live without them. So settle things with your friend instead of complaining about it in a public forum

DOBERMAN_07

Kid, learn this lesson soon because later it will bite you in your behind...

THERE ARE VERY VERY VERY FEW FRIENDS IN THIS WORLD.

You will have many buddies and you will meet many people who you will think are cool, but remember that they are not your friends.

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Cassie Nova

You've got to be kidding me. Unless your definition of a friend is someone who never makes a mistake in your presence...then, of course, there are NO friends in this world.

DOBERMAN_07

Whats your definition of a friend?

I have 4 friends in a group of about 25 people.

Just for the record, I think they are "internet friends"

ilovemychihuahua

I have no friends in this group, now.

shiba

I have no friends at all, and I don't know why.

peace36

Just because you know a person and talk to them that does not make them a friend.

I think I get what doberman means. Yes, friends will make mistakes but there are many people who you think are your friends and this or that happens and it turns out to your own heartache that they are not.

Your lucky to have a few good true friends in this lifetime.

Shiba. If you want friends you have to make the effort. Right now I have no friends. I could have a bunch if I wanted a few good and a few just more causal. I have made no effort because my kids right now take up all my time(I have 5) and I am moving next year so I dont care to put forth the effort to make any. I hate moving I do not like long distance friendships.

Anyway Shiba, I bet you could make some friends if you tried. Are you nice? Do you honestly care about others? Are you giving (not$ wise) Are you loyal? If you have those qualities I am sure you could make good friends if you tried?

I had this one friend that I recently had to tell get lost to< I was nice about it though. She was always asking things of me and not little things. Which I do not mind sharing but there comes a point when I start feeling they are just taking advantage of me. Plus I found out she stole some things from my home and was lying to me. Still she cried when I broke off the friendship. I did not tell her why I was breaking it off because I did not want get into a debate with her about her faults I think she knows what she did and would either deny it or say sorry and just do it again.

Ok, gotta go sorry to babble on so

siberian husky lover12

Well its not my fault my mom made me get off IM and she came back and i wasnt there. I tryied to tell her, then i got back on with a message that said I HATE YOU! Yeah i should just forget about that! Be freinds again and have her say it again! I am in agroup of10 people and only 1 is my friend! Isnt that sad!

peace36

If she is truely sorry. Or if it was one of those things where she was being funny but you misunderstood because it is sometimes hard to convey the fact that you are joking when you are typing it then IMO you should forgive or not be mad because it was a misunderstanding.

shiba

Hi, yes I am nice, and kind,don't ask anything of anyone, but give most of the time, as this pleases me,I too had a friend for about7 years, but she took me for granted, so I cooled the relationship, she lives close and still tries to take me for granted, but I am now wiser, I have my Dogs,and my Hubby, but do get lonely for female chat, never mind Summer is coming, and I will be with my other friends (plants and Flowers), not such a bad life after all.

opossum

Depends entirely on the age/maturity of the person saying it.

Curbside Prophet

If I disposed of all my friends because of the words they used on me in a misunderstanding, I would have no friends. Friendship is an action word, and not about what we receive in return. The bonds that I have with my friends are so because they survived petty tests like this. In the end it's about how you are as a friend, and not how your friend is to you. People who are able friends bond together and those that don't end up with no friends.

BeagleLover

Do you know this person off the message board? If not, you can't have true friends on the internet. Don't sweat about it.

LeRoymydog

God knows what he's doing. If you can trust in God, then you can trust in yourself. If this person was meant to be your "friend", then she'll apologize and be "friends" again, knowing that she hurt your feelings.

peace36

I hear you there! That is one of the things I miss most about not having my good friend anymore.

I lost my other good friend to drugs. I had been friends with her since grade school. I was so upset. I ended up with her 2 yr old little girl living with me for a month while her parents tried to locate her and she was living in some sort of druggie flop house in chicago. She was so different when she came back. I do not do drugs and so I guess she figured I do not understand her.
I saw her last when I dropped her baby back off to her at her parents house. She , well I think she will never be the same again. She is the type that will do what ever her boyfriend does, this guy happened to be into drugs

ilovemychihuahua

Hey you guys, guess what? We are friends again right siberian husky lover 12? Yeah, we decided to make up, so thanx you guys! We are happy again!

siberian husky lover12

YEAH! Its cool you guys, and guesse what? WE ARE IMing AHAHAHHHAHAHHA!

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