Relationship Peeves...aka The Annoying SO Venting Thread

zimandtakandgrrandmimi · 10-10-2008, 04:58 PM

REDHEADS!!!!!! He can't keep his dumb stoopid stinking eyeballs in his dumb stoopid stinking head whenever a freaking Redhead walks by!!!!!

It makes me feel inadequate and ugly....

and then he has the NERVE to say

"but I love you for your brilliant cabeza Poquita..."

it just pisses me off...couldn't he just not look?!?! is it really THAT HARD??!!!??

and he always swears he will take out the trash...soon...and then guess who always ends up taking out the trash??

And can we please STOP giving the child cookies BEFORE dinner?? sheesh...men....

Am I alone? I love him to death...but he is soooooo annoying sometimes....Do other people have to put up with this bs in their relationships?

/rant

GroovyGroomer777 · 10-10-2008, 05:02 PM

Aww, Zim. Men can be such idiots sometimes!! Does he know how his wandering eyes make you feel? I'm sure he thinks its funny, but maybe if he knew it made you feel ugly he would think twice. Surely looking at some stranger isn't as satisfying as making you feel secure! I'm sorry. I have delt with this with old boyfriends and that is why they are old boyfriends. They really are genetic mutants.

zimandtakandgrrandmimi · 10-10-2008, 05:12 PM

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Originally Posted by GroovyGroomer777

Aww, Zim. Men can be such idiots sometimes!! Does he know how his wandering eyes make you feel? I'm sure he thinks its funny, but maybe if he knew it made you feel ugly he would think twice. Surely looking at some stranger isn't as satisfying as making you feel secure! I'm sorry. I have delt with this with old boyfriends and that is why they are old boyfriends. They really are genetic mutants.

We had one discussion about the redhead thing...I laid my points out calmly and clearly. I don't want to explode on him because he just shuts down. He says he can't help it andthat red hair is just very fascinating to look at and that its not really an attraction thing for him which I gave him the benefit of the doubt but am highly skeptical of due to the fact that I haven't once caught him looking at a man's red hair..

*sigh*

genetic mutants huh? lmao...i'll believe that...I wonder what he would do if I dyed MY hair red...hmmm...

Dieselsmama · 10-10-2008, 05:23 PM

Awww {{{Zim}}} I'm sure he doesn't mean to make you feel that way. I'm currently single but in past relationships I've been with guys who drooled and one guy who literally NEVER looked at any other woman. Honestly I thought it was a bit wierd he didn't and it sure made me feel like a heel when some super hot guy walked past and my jaw dropped. Didn't mean I didn't love him or that i didn't find him attractive at all. Maybe if u worry less about his looking and start looking a bit yourself you'll feel better about it, and understand it's in no way a reflection of his feelings for you. Outward appearance is just that, yeah it's a base for an attraction, but love is much more than that. It's a partnership and true admiration for the other person. So that even when they do something that really pisses you off, you can still think to yourself, I really do Like this person even tho I wanna throttle them LOL.

Now the taking out the trash and giving cookies before dinner, that's a deal breaker there

Filnyyena · 10-10-2008, 05:45 PM

Ok, at least he doesn't play the "Hit it" game while YOU ARE IN THE CAR with him.

Looking? I can deal with that. PISSES me off and makes me feel inadequate as well, but I can deal with it. Telling me that "Yeah, I'd hit that"???? NOT cool AT all..

I am totally with you on this

GroovyGroomer777 · 10-10-2008, 05:47 PM

Hit It Game!??! I am stunned! I don't think I could handle that. How is that ok?!

zimandtakandgrrandmimi · 10-10-2008, 05:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Dieselsmama

Awww {{{Zim}}} I'm sure he doesn't mean to make you feel that way. I'm currently single but in past relationships I've been with guys who drooled and one guy who literally NEVER looked at any other woman. Honestly I thought it was a bit wierd he didn't and it sure made me feel like a heel when some super hot guy walked past and my jaw dropped. Didn't mean I didn't love him or that i didn't find him attractive at all. Maybe if u worry less about his looking and start looking a bit yourself you'll feel better about it, and understand it's in no way a reflection of his feelings for you. Outward appearance is just that, yeah it's a base for an attraction, but love is much more than that. It's a partnership and true admiration for the other person. So that even when they do something that really pisses you off, you can still think to yourself, I really do Like this person even tho I wanna throttle them LOL.

Now the taking out the trash and giving cookies before dinner, that's a deal breaker there

what you say makes sense...except...I really honestly do think he is the most attractive guy I have ever come face to face with...the only other face I have seen that compares in my mind has only been in pictures...oh well...

I do love him and the redhead thing isnt a dealbreaker by a longshot...it just gets to me sometimes...

Cookies and trash day on the other hand...This means WAR!! lmao..

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Originally Posted by Filnyyena

Ok, at least he doesn't play the "Hit it" game while YOU ARE IN THE CAR with him.

Looking? I can deal with that. PISSES me off and makes me feel inadequate as well, but I can deal with it. Telling me that "Yeah, I'd hit that"???? NOT cool AT all..

I am totally with you on this

Ugh! uumm...pig much?

next time he does that smack him stare at him and go

'yeah id hit that'

Ender · 10-10-2008, 06:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Filnyyena

Ok, at least he doesn't play the "Hit it" game while YOU ARE IN THE CAR with him.

Looking? I can deal with that. PISSES me off and makes me feel inadequate as well, but I can deal with it. Telling me that "Yeah, I'd hit that"???? NOT cool AT all..

I am totally with you on this

My boyfriend does that all the time. "I'd do her...She so wants to do me...I'd hit that so hard...etc etc." So, finally I started doing it too. He gets really annoyed though. It's funny...he has such double standards. He doesn't see why it's a problem if he does it, but if I make a remark that some guy has pretty eyes he's like "Well, just break up with me why don't you?" It's retarded.

Mr Pooch · 10-10-2008, 07:27 PM

Women are absolutley hilarious!!!!!!!hahaha

All your SO's need to learn how to be true players and be descreet about flirting.

GroovyGroomer777 · 10-10-2008, 07:30 PM

I wouldn't want a "player" as a SO....

Mr Pooch · 10-10-2008, 07:45 PM

The point is if he plays well enough you'll be too wrapped up in the flowers and other expensive gifts to know he is one."wink"(and of course your fair share of bedroom duty)haha

GroovyGroomer777 · 10-10-2008, 07:47 PM

Well, Pooch, whatever works for you....

AirForceAngel · 10-10-2008, 07:48 PM

I am in a fight with my husband, as well. He's just a selfish putz, though.

When I moved in with him it was all, "Weekends are all yours, I get to go out Friday night." Fine. Then one day it's, "I'm going to do football three nights a week." Umm ...

Then I'm walking home yesterday thinking, "Yes! It's Thursday which means he's mine all night and we can do something together." I get home and when I ask him if we can go out together he looks right at me and says, "No. I have football tonight."

Why do you never want to be home with your wife?!?!

Four nights a week now, plus I work. Four f***ing nights a week he has a "responsibility" to his buddies to play football and Magic. F*** 'em.

GroovyGroomer777 · 10-10-2008, 07:49 PM

LOL what on earth is magic and how could it be better than spending time with your wife?

AirForceAngel · 10-10-2008, 07:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Ender

My boyfriend does that all the time. "I'd do her...She so wants to do me...I'd hit that so hard...etc etc." So, finally I started doing it too. He gets really annoyed though. It's funny...he has such double standards. He doesn't see why it's a problem if he does it, but if I make a remark that some guy has pretty eyes he's like "Well, just break up with me why don't you?" It's retarded.

Lolz!

My husband knows as soon as he starts that garbage it's over. I don't give a crap if divorce is messy, I'll take his sorry a** for everything he's got.

Buttplug.

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LOL what on earth is magic and how could it be better than spending time with your wife?

A very stupid and nerdy little card game. You "battle" with your cards. It's a huge phenomenon.

Here is the Wikipedia page for it.

Mr Pooch · 10-10-2008, 07:53 PM

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Originally Posted by GroovyGroomer777

Well, Pooch, whatever works for you....

Somebody lost thier sense of humour somewhere i see

GroovyGroomer777 · 10-10-2008, 07:57 PM

Sorry....but you guys think its so funny, and sensitive women can really be hurt over things like that. Not all, but Zim even said it makes her feel ugly and inadequate...is that funny? I know this really has nothing to do with you, but you are the only man who posted on this thread! (Bravely)

AirForceAngel · 10-10-2008, 08:01 PM

I don't think anyone "playing" anyone else is very humorous. It hurts people and it makes the "player" look like an @$$.

I would never tolerate "playing" or cheating on me by my husband. I would not be the woman who stayed by him after doing a thing like that. You cannot tell someone you love them when you honestly don't and you are fooling around behind their back while they stay faithful to you. Since when is that fair?

I'm sorry Pooch, but there are things that are funny and then there are things that are not.

Mr Pooch · 10-10-2008, 08:05 PM

Im sure Zim knows i mean no offence,and sorry if i upset any of you too.
*note to self* dont crack jokes in womens problems threads.

For the record the last girl i made the mistake of *eyeing up* in a club got knocked clean out by my GF,she doesnt play!

AirForceAngel · 10-10-2008, 08:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr Pooch

Im sure Zim knows i mean no offence,and sorry if i upset any of you too.
*note to self* dont crack jokes in womens problems threads.

For the record the last girl i made the mistake of *eyeing up* in a club got knocked clean out by my GF,she doesnt play!

You're lucky your girlfriend didn't plug you in the mouth!