| Re: Anxiety relating to crate and car Don't have any real experience with these issues so I'm afraid I can't help much. The one thing I will say is that we were keeping our bedroom off limits to our golden pup for awhile (it's the only carpeted area, and we didn't want her in there at all until we trusted that she wouldn't go potty in there). Well, she made it her life's work to get in there...if we forgot to shut the door tight, she would push it open; if we went in and weren't quick enough to shut the door, she'd follow us in. The millisecond her paw touched the carpet, she was off, zooming around and going nuts. She wasn't at all aggressive though, just very very very excited. It took awhile to desensitize her to the bedroom, until she could finally go in there and be as calm as she is anywhere else. Now she sleeps in there with us, so it's definitely not an excitement zone for her anymore.
So, I would try to things in regard to the spare bedroom: shutting the door rather than blocking it with the crate, and bringing your pup in there, on leash, to explore a bit (right afer a potty trip and a nice long walk!) so that he can start to see that there is nothing special about this room. Again, my situation was quite different from yours, so hopefully you will get more advice than this. But that was the first thing that jumped into my mind, that perhaps you have made such a big deal about that room being "off-limits" that he's becoming obsessed with it...just shutting the door so he doesn't even think about the room being there or desensitizing him to it might help. |