| Sorry to hear about your situation...I do hope sanity hsas finally found you. But, a dog who have developed negative feelings towards people, and over time their fears gets worse, you have to look at the dog's environment because there may be something that is reinforcing the behavior...like jerking of the leash or being yelled at or scolded. So, if any of these things are going on, look to eliminate them.
If he doesn’t like men, it’s important that he not be put in that kind of a position until you can teach him a good deal about feeling comfortable around men, and gradually get him use to men. Your dog will need to learn to accept physical contact from men, but gradually and under pleasant conditions. He must never be pressured into tolerating physical contact. Since he's taken a liking to Jeremy, I would inform Jeremy of NILIF, and ask him to help you work with the dog. Both of you should participate in handling Major...on walks, feedings, etc. And over time if you find that Major accepts other male family members or friends, ask them for help too. Have them lead Major through some simple sit and stay or other commands where he can be rewarded with praise and/or treats. I believe this will help build he confidence with men. But again, it must be done gradually, and ceased (until you can try again later) if Major should exhibit any fear tendencies. I hope this helps. |